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Question: Is it important to care what other people think of you!?
Should what others think about you matter to you!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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to a certain extent
the people who actually mean sumthing in ur life
its normal to want them to think well of u
but to care about what everyone thinks is unhealthy and shows a lack of inner self esteem!. meaning u need the opinion of others to measure ur own valueWww@QuestionHome@Com

No, it isn't!.
What is wonderful about humans are their individuality!.
Yet -- we strive for community and acceptance!.
So !.!.!. what to do!?
I think that as the other writer suggested, you just try to find a path for yourself, and stick to it as much as you can!.
In my humble opinion, and in my own situation -- the best that I can be, is totally related to who I am, and many times, that has meant disappointing others, simply because we are not, or I am not a mirror of someone else!.
Trying to understand and cope with these issues is difficult for us as adults, let alone teenagers!.
However, discussing these issues also undermines, the power of say: advertising !.!.!. because if it isn't important to care about what others think of us, then maybe we will not buy what others are buying!?!?!?
We are given the gift of life !.!.!. so let us enjoy our own lives together, and feel free to be ourselves!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, I think so!. Even though a lot of people will say it doesn't matter you should at least be aware because the impression that you leave on others will be one of the only things you leave behind!. If you are nice, people will remember you as a nice person, if you are mean, they'll remember you as mean!. It just depends!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If you are honest with yourself, you'll know that it is impossible NOT to care what others think!. The problem comes in when you start designing your life around other people's opinions!.

The best strategy is to have your own clearly defined goals and to review them every day!. Make decisions based on your goals!. You will achieve your dreams and your friends will actually respect you more for it!.


Jerry Hobby
http://www!.anythinginternet!.comWww@QuestionHome@Com

it depends!!!
i don't care what you think of me because i really don't know you and what are you thinking!

example!.!. i don't care what a fast food managers thinks of my new hair style! but i do care about what a hairstyles would say!

so if the source of the person who thinks something about me exspress their opinion and it's not they qulified trade then i could care less!


i also value opinions of those close to me like family and friends!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

My cousin and I were walking out on a really hot day!. He took off his jogging pants, soaked them in a fountain and wrapped them around his head!. He doesn't care!. It was natural to him he wasn't trying to be different or shocking!. I don't think it "should" matter but it does to some extent to everyone, me too, otherwise I'd wear is pyjamas all the time!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

in some matters it is important!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
like if i am doing something wrong then i should care and if i am right then i dont care!.!.!.!.
coz something can be right for some person but that same thing can be wrong for another person, so different people have different views!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Not matter,but it is important to keep others feelings in mind!.Www@QuestionHome@Com