Question: This is okay!.!.isn't it!?
Is it appropriate for a guy in a long-distance relationship to keep on getting drunk with his girl best friend!?
There was one inappropriate incident with the girl!.!.but if it won't happen again!.!.what's the harm!?
They are alone when they drink together!.
The guy says he doesn't want to put himself in that situation again, but they still get drunk together!. He says if they start drinking earlier, this will prevent something inappropriate happening again!.
One time she got drunk, but he didn't because he didn't feel like drinking, and he didn't put any moves on her!. So this proves that he's not out to bang her!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
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wrong!. It will happen again!.
wrong!. this proves nothing!.
wrong!. he earlier they start, the more they will drink!.!.
just because he did not do anything this time, does not mean that it will not happen in the future!.
when you put two healthy adults together alone and add alcohol, sex happens!.
it's almost a mathematical certainty!.
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Of course he's not out to bang her!. But he says he won't put himself in that situation again, yet he does it again and again regardless!. That's not a good thing!. I'm going to assume that this "guy" is your boyfriend!. If I were you I would dump him and try to find someone close by!. Long-distance relationships can work out, but he seems to not understand that he has to be completely faithful to be in a long-distance relationship!. If you really like him, maybe you can talk to him and see if you can get him to not see that girl anymore!. It seems like he keeps getting himself in a bad situation where he doesn't want to be in but doesn't mind it happening!. Good luck!Www@QuestionHome@Com
I hate to tell you but if it happened once it will likely happen again!. I have no knowledge of your relationship but I do know that alchol messes with your judgement and that is a tough judgement to make in the situation that you present!. I would suggest that you talk to him about the terms of your relationship and maybe express your concerns to him, it might come to a conclusion!. Www@QuestionHome@Com
It is not okay for a guy to get drunk with another girl alone, while he has a girlfriend!. I wouldn't trust the two-timer!. Why in the hell would he want to get drunk with another girl, a bimbo it seems at that, if she is always getting drunk with him!. They both seem untrustworthy!. But this is a matter of opinion, and they could be really two great people who wouldn't do anything like that, but you did say they did once and his girlfriend should have broken up with him!. That's called cheating and shouldn't be tolerated!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
This is what I'm hearing:
"I dont like it when my bf gets drunk with another girl and he's not doing anything about it!. So Im gonna see if other ppl think its wrong too!. I HOPE THEY DONT DO SOMETHING STUPID WHEN THEY'RE DRUNK"
Go to your boyfriend and let him know that what he is doing is wrong!. He shouldn't be letting his best friend get drunk so much and he definitely should not do the same thing!. Dont just let him do it againa and again!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
NO!. Even if they don't want to do anything with each other it sounds like it can only end in tears!. Out of respect to his girlfriend, and to the relationship, they should restrict themselves to seeing one another in less suspicious circumstances!.
It sounds harsh but its true!.
I've been on both ends of this stick and its just not on!. He's probably not telling his girlfriend either, which never helps the trust issues!. Give it up!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
hard to call
if it happen before it can happen again
but then again he also proved himself
so is it possible, yes
should you maybe try to prevent it, another yes
why doesnt he add another drinking buddy
it would make things better and probably be fun to add
to the gang
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I guess thats okay!.!. if its okay with you!.
I think i know what you mean by "Inappropriate", and if even that much doesn't bother you, well, then i guess its okay, and you said that he didn't try to pull any moves, so i guess your good!.!.!.
Thats okay!.
Good Luck!!!
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lol plz oh plz! dont b one of those girls!. ok he drinks she drinks no big deal right!.!.the reality!.!.it is a big deal!.!.being drunk tells the real side of who u r!.!.whaa r u gonna do when u find out he banged her cuz he was drunk!.!.r u gonna forgive him!.!.cuz!.!.he was "drunk" OR did he do it already!.!.!.im not putting any thoughts into ur head!.!.all im saying is keep a realistic outlook towards wats going on in ur life!.!.ok:D let me kno wha happends!Www@QuestionHome@Com
I have heard things like this before!. The guy (or girl) messes around with someone else and they say it will never happen again!. Then it just keeps going on and on and on because he knows you are giving him chances!. You know what people say!. "Long distance relationships are unhealthy!."Www@QuestionHome@Com
if u didnt c it its probably not the whoe truth!. tons of my friends have been scarred and bruised for life because of long distance relationships!. one bad incident is all it takes!. i say let him off easy and tell him to have fun!. still be frineds if possibleWww@QuestionHome@Com
You would if this continues on!.!.!. Under the influence of alcohol, everything looks pretty and beautiful!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
nope!.!.!.beer combined with a girl and guy by themselves is bad news - unless of course one of them is really unattractive - if it's the girl the guy will probably still band her!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
That's not good!. BTW, when a guy has a girl bestfriend or a girl has a guy bestfriend, they usually end up hooking up or liking eachother!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
long-distance relationships never workout if you started long-distance, if you started with him there then you should know!.
do what your heart tells you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
its not inappropriate because its his bestfriend!. Nothings the harm if it wont happen again and if he;s not out to bang her than no worries mate =]Www@QuestionHome@Com
Probably not, that is just a recipe for a disaster waiting to happen!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
I don't know!. I would feel REALLy uncomfortable!. But he' telling you this, so why wouldn't you trust him!? I would just make sure one of his's GUY friends are with him to!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
O mymy, this must be the 50 th love question i have seen today!. stop asking the internet for answers, go read a bible, no wait! there are not any answers in their either! Www@QuestionHome@Com
I'm pretty sure it's not okay!.Hmmm!.!.!.maybe that girl should just not drink with that guy!? maybe that way!.!.!.it wont happen againWww@QuestionHome@Com
That is definitly NOT okay!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Sounds like you are trying to convince yourself that its o!.k!. Well its not!. Www@QuestionHome@Com
well it realy depends on how you feel about it if your intuition tells you its fine go with itWww@QuestionHome@Com
It's not inherrently wrong, but it is risky and could put strain on the relationWww@QuestionHome@Com
when your drunk who know what will happen!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
no thats not ok!. and he shouldnt get drunk in the first place!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
being drunk changes your way of making up decisions!. Www@QuestionHome@Com
HES PROBLABLY GONNA **** HER!.!.
(CUZ HES A GUY)Www@QuestionHome@Com
No it isn'tWww@QuestionHome@Com
so is banging now a performing art!?
enlighten me!. please!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
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