I have asked this girl who is single and is in her late 30's that I work around at my job as me and her both have the same rock groups we like!. I thought as a good employee around her as well as a good friend that me and her could start going to concerts when we know our faves are close by!.
A month or so ago, I asked about a Hinder concert as they were to put on a show in Tulsa I believe it was or Kansas City!. At that time she had a part time job with the local Braum's on evening shift and wasn't sure if her boss would let her go that night of the concert or not, likely to say that became a 100% no!.
This last week or the week before, I told her about the upcoming concert with Shinedown, Buckcherry and Saving Abel being held at Tulsa on 9/24!. She told me last week that she would be interested but wasn't sure, so then I asked her again today about it and she was like, "I'm sorry but thanks for the offer!." At the moment she told me that, my heart just completely sunk!. Most of my respect and love I had for her as a good friend to her sorta just blurred at that split moment!.
I feel like all she's doing is seeing thru me in a way!. I feel like all she wants to do for fun is sit around with her friends and enjoy spending time around alcohol and cigarettes!.
She told me why she doesn't want the offer to the concert this time too but I found it as a truth that might be hard to believe!. She told me she wasn't sure because of her applying for a job with the local LA-Z-BOY and with that in mind, my mind was doing nothing but jogging, "Pshhh, yeah right, is it really the truth!?"
What hurts even worse is the fact that I was offering to buy her ticket with mine, therefore she woulda been my date that night only to the concert!.
So what does anyone here think!? Who thinks that I need to quit wasting my breath asking this girl out to concerts!?
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