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Question: CONFIDENCE!!!!!!!!!!!Please help!!!!!!110 POINTS!!!!!!!!!!!!?
I need to gain confidence for a talent show im ganna be singing iasong that I wrote for this girl I like and playing guitar with a broken arm!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com


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LOL!. Aww that is soo sweet!! Just calm down, rehearse in private and sing the song from the heart!. When you're performing pretend that no one is there in the audience and that you are just playing the song to that one girl in your rehearsal!. That's all you need!. The world will stop for your performance!. =)Www@QuestionHome@Com

Relax!. It's your song!. You should know it by heart!.

If you really like this girl, you shouldn't be nervous!. And if you aren't but the crowd does (make you nervous) then just look at her when you are playing!.

This will give her the hint that the song is dedicated to you, even if you didn't introduce it as that!.

With your broken arm, it's an awsome risk!. It may hurt, but it doesn't matter to you, because all you will feel is that warmth in your heart!.

Practice in front of a group that understands you and aren't immature!. This gives you the practice AND confidence that you can play perfectly!. **Practice makes perfect**

When you are about to perform, Breathe slowly!. Think about great memories thats motivates you to be extremely well at anything (in this case your song)!. Then relax and play when you are ready!. Don't forget to give out a flash of a smile saying "I can do this, watch me!."

Trust me, you will do great!.

In the end accept what the girl may say to you!. No matter what ok!? At least you will always have her a a friend (though i think you will have her love)!.

GOOD LUCK!

And i hope this helped!.

Remember:

However you performed, it was great and you used all your will for it!. =]Www@QuestionHome@Com

CALM DOWN!!!!!!!!!! The only way for you to get confidence is to stop being over the top about this girl!. No one should cause you to feel so uncomfortable or afraid!. If you can play a guitar with a broken arm then, you are a very talented person!.
You should have confidence in yourself that you can do that!.
You should have confidence in yourself about even being able to play the guitar!. That's a gift!!!!!!!!
Blessings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Well practice practice and more practice!
plus you could also practice in front of friends or family that you are comfortable with!.
and when you perform, don't think about "oh what is this girl thinking!?!?!?" you should concentrate on your song and sing your heart out!
And if you are able to play with a broken arm then just practice enough to make it almost second nature!.
Break a leg!Www@QuestionHome@Com

you are one brave person to be doing such a beautiful thing
playing the guitar is hard enough with one arm, with your true love for music and this girl will blow her away!
take a deep breath and do your best!. she will appreciate your bravery for even trying

I'm sure you'll do GREAT! keep on practicing and u'll be a HIT!Www@QuestionHome@Com

may God be with you that night'
because you are one brave soul to be doing this!.
playing the guitar is hard enough with one arm, with your true love and the inspiration for music in the audience!.
take a deep breath and do your best!. we will appreciate your bravery for even trying!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

well, it's more like you need to get over stage fright!. my best advice is to just go out there and act like you own it, no matter what happens!. music is to be lived for the present!. you can't be stuck thinking about what you messed up on a few measures ago or what really difficult part is coming up!. you just have to live in that moment and give it your all!. each performance is not something to look back on and go "i wish i would have done that", but something to say "wow, i did my absolute best and rocked it!." if you don't want to pick someone out of the audience to make contact with, stare at the back wall, but use your EYES to communicate emotion!. if there's one thing i can't stand it's people who close their eyes when they sing!.

keep a smile on your face no matter what and keep your energy up!. you'll do great!Www@QuestionHome@Com

People will forgive you if you mess up because of your broken arm, so you have nothing to worry about there, plus if you do mess up the girl would be so happy you thought of her that it wouldn't matter!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

o my god! that is so precious!!! if this girl doesnt fall in love with you immediately she is insane

perform it for your family or friends then you will know if its good and it will make you more confidentWww@QuestionHome@Com

i am a date doctor of sorts so email me and i can tell you some confidence exercizes and some breathing techniques and how to make her fall in love with youWww@QuestionHome@Com

thats so cute, just try your best & don't get too nervous!.
you will do just fine!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

it's okay calm down and take deep breathes!. also How sweet your so nice i think she'll love the thoughtWww@QuestionHome@Com

110 points! how!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

just go for it!. pretty soon every one ont care and you will win her hartWww@QuestionHome@Com