Got caught cheating on my girlfriend?

Question:

Got caught cheating on my girlfriend?

Told her I was drunk..she said that was no excuse
what would have been a better excuse?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: i love how you labeled this as a performing art. how about not doin it in the first place ! hate to say it but serves you right. if u aint been dumped then u got lucky. however, a better excuse would be that your drink got spiked and you had no clue what you were doing. don't cheat if you are playing away then end the relationship NONE. You should not have done it in the first place. Would you like it if she cheated on you? there is no excuse you bad man!! Let me give you good advice - The thing about 'do on to others..' It's true. So brace yourself. i don't love you so i banged another chick.. sorry. to not have done it silly Obviously things ain't right in the bedroom at home! Or your just a dog! Either way there is no excuse!! There is no excuse, as you well know. As many people have already stated, there really is no "better excuse."

If you cheated, there is obviously something about your relationship that wasn't fulfilling you. For future reference, when that occurs, it is best to discuss it with your significant other and decide together whether or not you can work things out in a manner that will satisfy both of your needs. If not, end the relationship BEFORE you move on.

As it stands now, it is up to you to decide if you want this relationship to work and then open a dialog with your girlfriend to decide how to proceed. She may not be able to forgive you, and that is her right, but if you still want to be with her, it is up to you to be honest, open, and not make excuses. Then, it's up to her to decide whether she wants to continue to the relationship or not. Excuses are NOT the answer. In the words of the wise old sage:

"No excuse would have been better!"

When you get caught doing the wrong thing, the least you can do is step up and take responsibility. This is all about trust. How can knowing that a bottle can take you over and make you do something that you normally wouldn't do cause her to trust you, even a little. If I were her, I would take that to mean that you are going to sleep with somebody every time somebody puts Vanilla in the cookies.

The only choice you got is to take responsibility for your actions, learn to think with your head and not with any area that the blood rushes to when you get excited, and start the long painful process back to forgiveness, redemption, and eventually trust. This could be the most important lesson you ever learn, if you decide to go through with it. Good Journey. Remember that it starts by admitting that she is worth it! Strange catagory for it. sorry, no excuse is better, next time don't get caught by not cheating! you cheat then wonder what your girlfriends problem is! why cheat in the first place? i dont understand this cheating thing! if you wanna sleep around why not just stay single then you can do what you like with who you like without hurting anyones feelings and upsetting people! What would have been a better excuse?

Hm.. may- WAIT! What the heck does this have to do with Performing Arts?!

Oh, I'm not going to even bother. An excuse??? A good excuse is that you're a sad excuse for an adult male when you can't keep your pecker in your pants.

I'll give you excuse ...